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10 Myths That Stand in the Way of Your Dreams... and How to Bust Them!
By
David Cameron Gikandi Myth #1: You cannot create wealth if you dont have education or money to begin with. This is nonsense. First, education is important. You simply need to know what to do. It is far easier to follow a proven path than to figure it out yourself by trial and error. But education can be acquired, no matter who or where you are. Sure, some people may not afford to go to college or even school. But, if you place one foot forward, and then the next, learn one step at a time, you will ALWAYS find the next step. If you dont know how to start and run a business and cannot go to business school or whatever, you can always take one step forward, learn something small about business, start somewhere, and you will find someone at the end of that step who will teach you the next step. And this applies to anything you wish to accomplish! One step at a time always leads you to the goal. Initially it may be a slow start but sooner or later you will gain momentum. Now, as for
money, you also dont need money to get started. The more you develop
your RIGHT information and knowledge and RIGHT network of people, the
less you need money! More nonsense. It is true that at a certain level, time = money. At a certain level. If you are employed by the hour, then, yes, time = money. But this is NOT a universal principle! Passive income, residual income, capital gains and so on are examples of situations whereby money comes without your direct working for it. Look, production creates money. But it doesnt have to be your hard direct labor doing the production. If you own the value production system (such as a business, an asset, a book you have written (or paid someone to write for you), a list of buyers in a particular area, a network marketing down line, a membership website whereby you have placed some instructional materials that members pay access fees to you for, shares, a content site with Google AdWords, rental property, etc) or pay someone else to work, then you dont have to work to enjoy the benefits. The more
you develop your RIGHT information and knowledge and RIGHT network of
people, and package yourself to create passive income systems, the less
you need to work! The key word there is packaging. Packaging
allows for you to be untied from your work. You can now export, mass produce
and mass distribute your strengths, knowledge, skills, resources, etc.
Do you know how to achieve self-packaging (and we are not talking about
dressing up nicely here)? It is adequate at training people to get a job, to be artists and doctors and lawyers, and so on. But it does NOT show you how to be financially and time free. It simply doesnt! Our current education system was designed in the 1800s to produce people who fit into the work gaps in society, the machinery It was the industrial age, after all. We needed people to work in the factories, to invent things, to administrate, to provide health services support, and so on. There was
no agenda to teach people to be financially and time free. Maybe, as civilization
advances, this will be commonly taught. But at this stage in our civilization,
this information is held by less than 2% of the population, perhaps. But
all you are missing is this information. Those whom you may admire for
having financial and time freedom simply have the information that you
dont. OK, do you really believe that in and of itself, hard work is the key? I know tons of people who work very hard and are still struggling, as I am sure you do, too. And I know several people who are financially free and still choose to work hard. There is nothing wrong with hard work. It is all up to you. And then I know of those who hardly work, and they too are financially and time free. It is up to you. But what I hope we can agree on is that hard work is not the key. You need to apply your efforts along the right plan, leverage it using the rights systems and people, applying proven processes that lead to achievement time and time again. Once you
have reached a certain level, work is optional, but chances are, because
you will most likely reach such a level by doing what you love, you will
tend to work anyways! Because you love what you do! It is far easier to come from competence (strength) to excellence than it is to come from mediocrity to competence. We all have strengths and weaknesses. Why bother improve your weaknesses? It takes far too much effort, too much time, and it isnt fun! Working within your strengths is super-fun, has high growth, and great results. So why not
spend the BULK of your time doing what you love and are strong at, and
let those who are strong in your areas of weakness handle your weaknesses
for you? It is a synergistic way of looking at things, and if you know
how to apply this principle, wow! Your life will zoom up!
Myth #6: Struggle is normal. No its not.
Struggle is a result of not being in the flow. In flow with what? With
yourself! With how things work! With the natural order of things! With
other people and systems (hence the power of leverage)! Oh, boy,
this is a big one! We were raised believing that it is virtuous to figure
it out, to solve things. Well, solving things has its place. And its place
is in inventions. In things we dont know about. At one time, we
didnt have mobile phones, now we do. Through figuring it out, trial
and error, decades of research, we invented mobile telephony. Now, in
2008, why on earth would you want to re-invent the mobile phone? Just
buy one! Its cheaper and faster. So why not
take advantage of global learning and evolution, eliminate trial and error,
and simply learn from those who have succeeded before you in the path
you wish to follow. We have been told that it is strong, manly even, to
figure it out yourself. That it is weak to seek help. Trash those ideas
right now and start emulating succeed. Copy success! If you run away from risks, you also run from its rewards. Life rewards risk! Life rewards risk, mightily! And life teaches via failure, guiding the failed to future success. It is far more painful to remain in mediocrity than to try and try again and make it. Life will assist you! Now, having
said that, there is no point being a damned fool about risk. Take risk,
but find ways in which you can manage risk. And the best way to manage
risk is to get rid of unseen corners, get rid of ignorance. How do you
do that? By copying those who have succeeded before you, by learning from
those who are there already! Risk management is not the same as risk avoidance.
Dont run from risk; manage it. Anyone up for a good laugh? Hopefully, we all now know that this isnt true. It just flat out isnt true. That is a fable that used to be told in the 1950s to new factory workers. Work hard and then retire! Now we know that those who dont have their retirement sorted will have 10 to 20 years or more of very hard living at a fraction of their past income. Think about it. If you retire at 65 years of age and live to 80 or more, what kind of life do you think a retirement benefit scheme from your employer will give you? You may end up having to work at a video store after you consume your retirement fund. And at that age, few banks will give you loans, and so on. Retirement has NOTHING to do with age, and NOTHING to do with being able to live without working. You can retire at 25 years of age if you have put together a passive income system. And without an adequate passive income system, retiring at 65 wont magically make money come to you. Retirement is simply the ability to stop having to work because you own a system that can replace your income for you. A long time ago, some governments were able to do this for their citizens, to provide such a system for those who reached a certain age. Hence the common confusion nowadays that retirement has something to do with age and it automatically provides for passive income. Nowadays,
most governments are unable to adequately provide for those who retire
simply because they have hit the 65 years of age mark. The benefits available
are meager at best. Out of the top of my head, I think that only the Scandinavian
countries, especially Norway, have a suitable retirement scheme. The rest
just arent enough or arent there anymore. This is the mother of all the myths. We are fed this myth in so many different ways and through so many different channels. There is the prevailing idea that you cannot be yourself and succeed. You are taught to change yourself to fit a certain standard, to accept certain ideas to blend in! In fact, you are even rewarded for blending in, for losing your natural essence, for dropping your own way. The rewards are piecemeal. Often consisting of minor promotions, small raises, stars on sheets of paper. All the time, the big reward, your life lived in passion, is held at bay, unlived. Look, you may copy successful ways of life, but you dont have to stop being yourself. In fact, being yourself is the best thing you can do for your success. Accept your strengths and weaknesses, then apply your strengths 100%. Whatever they may be. Accept your passions! Then follow your heart 100%! Know your natural path and ways, then harmonize that with the world and follow your path. I am not calling for a rebellion for the sake of rebellion. That is just as unproductive as conforming. What I am saying is, be at peace with who you are, leverage your power and passions, learn what you need to learn from those who have succeeded at what you wish to accomplish, then follow your way, and you will succeed so well, and you will be happy because it will be in doing what you love! BUT WAIT! Didnt they tell us, when we were younger, that we cant just do what we love, that we have to do what we are told, and work in careers selected from a menu that was presented to us when we were too young to know any better? Yes, they did tell us these things! And now we believe them, we accept them as facts of life. Wake up! They arent facts of life! They are just beliefs about life. You can do what you love and succeed mightily. You simply need to know how. 93%
More free time, 362% more money, doing what you love! Also by David Cameron Gikandi: How Anyone Can Become a Millionaire
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